Spirit and Soul: Mediums Do Cry Too

In full transparency, this is the third time I have started my column this month. Regardless of what I started writing about, it just didn’t feel right. Each time, I couldn’t gain enough steam for either subject to become a whole article. Not because they weren’t worthy subjects, I’m sure they’ll get finished eventually. I just wasn’t feeling them right now.

Then, as I was organising myself to begin a day of work preparing for the launch of this issue, I was visited by the spirit of a beautiful friend of mine who died almost two months ago now. I’ve been waiting and waiting for her to come through and believe me, I had noted her absence in not doing so. My monkey mind telling me that maybe she didn’t want to visit me; that maybe my friendship didn’t mean anything to her.

If you’ve lost someone who took some time before coming through for you, you may relate to these thoughts and feeling, or ones similar. Yet as a medium, I knew (and gave myself a swift kick to “walk my talk”) that because of her drawn-out passing due to cancer, she needed a little time to heal and transition from this world to the next. And to find her groove on the other side.

Then, as I was messaging her wife this morning, for the first time since she left this world, I could feel her very strongly by my side. First, it was just the impression of her watching over her family with a big cheeky smile on her face and love in her heart. A message that was welcomed after I felt the nudge to pass it on to her wife. Then, as she moved closer to me, I was wrapped in a feeling of pure love energy.

The experience was so intense; I literally sat for a good ten minutes crying my eyes out.

I suppose, mixed up in my tears, was the reality and reminder that she really was gone from this world. Keeping busy as I do, it’s been easy to push my very human grief aside. So I cried for the very real fact that she had to go through such a challenging human death. My sadness was that such a hurtful experience happened to such a beautiful, kind-hearted friend of mine. I know her loss is felt by her family deeply, so I cried about them missing out on this life together too.

Regardless of my understanding of all the spiritual context behind someone’s physical death, losing someone always affects my heart deeply.

Mostly though, I cried simply for the impact that her pure love energy had on me, my heart and the stirrings of soul remembrance. The spirit world is profound like that. The term “love and light” might be cliché nowadays, but that doesn’t make it any less true when it comes to the spirit world. Spirit can hold the highest frequencies and vibrations of love and light we could ever hope to achieve, and never will in our physical form.

That is why I love the work I do as a medium, and the connection I have to the spirit world. I get a snapshot of what the spirit world feels like every time I connect. Sometimes that experience is more profound than other times, like the experience with my friend this morning. But regardless, each time I am literally left speechless, because the intensity of love that comes through takes my breath away, and often leaves me in tears.

Feeling my friend this morning (and still feeling her now as I write this), I am reminded that we are only here temporarily. That this life isn’t the big picture at all. And that once we leave our earthly life, we get to return home. And for so many reasons, I love being reminded of home.

Kim Bleeze, Founder | CEO

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Kim Bleeze is a free-spirited gypsy traveller and wears many hats. A medium, psychic, mentor, teacher, speaker, healer and author. For over 15 years, Kim has worked with clients and students in Australia and Overseas. She has a passion for spirit, mediumship, and inspiring people to be real, raw, and awakened to their soul’s blueprint. Which ultimately inspired the birth of Fierce Truths Magazine.