I want to talk to you about something that I believe is fundamental to our growth as human beings: understanding our soul lessons. If you’re unfamiliar with the term, a soul lesson is essentially a life lesson our souls have chosen to learn in this lifetime. These lessons may be fresh and relevant only to our current life, or, as is true in many cases, these lessons may be a repeating theme from a past life, taking the form of challenges, hardships, or even positive experiences that push us out of our comfort zones and help us grow and evolve, both as a person and as a soul.
How can we recognise a soul lesson?
Well, it often feels like a recurring pattern or theme. Maybe you keep finding yourself in toxic relationships, attracted to the same type of person repeatedly, or perhaps you struggle with self-doubt, fear, and finding value in yourself. Whatever the pattern, it usually brings us a lot of discomfort and unease. If it is a lesson that keeps repeating, it may also have you thinking, “Why does this keep happening to me?”
Trying to avoid or numb the pain with distractions can be tempting when faced with these challenges. But to truly grow and learn from these experiences, we must lean into the discomfort and face our fears head-on.
What can we do to make sure we’re learning through the experience?
First and foremost, we need to be present, mindful and self-aware. It’s easy to get caught up in our thoughts and emotions and to feel like life is happening to us. But by taking a step back and observing these lessons without judgment, we can gain valuable insights about ourselves and the situation unfolding in our life.
This is why it is vital to approach all situations with an open mind and a willingness to recognise that there is a lesson to learn. Instead of getting defensive or blaming others, take responsibility for your actions and reactions. Ask yourself what you can learn from this experience, what this shows you about yourself, how you can use this experience to become a better version of yourself and how you can use it to grow. This may require stepping outside your comfort zone and challenging old habits and thought patterns, but the rewards are worth it.
How can that learning be used as a tool to change our life?
Learning from our soul lessons makes us more aware of our patterns and behaviours. From there, we can break free from old habits and thought patterns that no longer serve us. We can choose again and instead cultivate new, healthier ones.
We can also gain a deeper sense of purpose and meaning by learning from our soul lessons. We clean out the old energy that may have been following us for eons. We start to see the bigger picture and understand how our experiences have shaped us into who we are today. We can use this knowledge to make more intentional choices for our highest good and live a life that aligns with our values and beliefs.
How to connect with a situation in your life and receive the lesson in it.
You can bring several practices to your life experiences, especially the challenging and repeating ones. Journaling can be a powerful tool for self-reflection and introspection. Mindfulness meditation can help you become more present and aware of your thoughts and emotions. And seeking guidance from someone you trust can provide a fresh perspective and help you see things in a new light.
Try these Practices!
Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can be a powerful tool for self-reflection and introspection. Set aside some time each day to write about the situation that you’re struggling with. Ask yourself questions like “What emotions am I feeling?” and “What can I learn from this experience?” By exploring your thoughts and feelings on paper, you may gain insights you wouldn’t have otherwise.
Mindfulness Meditations: Practicing mindfulness meditation can help you become more present and aware of your thoughts and emotions. Sit quietly, close your eyes, and focus on your breath. When thoughts arise, acknowledge them and then let them go. Practising mindfulness allows you to observe your thoughts and emotions without getting caught up in them.
Seek Guidance: Sometimes, seeking guidance from someone else can be helpful. This could be a trusted friend, family member, or professional like a therapist or coach. Talking about your situation with someone else can provide a fresh perspective and help you see things differently. Just make sure to choose someone supportive and non-judgmental.
We can create a more fulfilling and purposeful life by recognising these lessons, staying present and open-minded, and using our experiences as a catalyst for change. So, the next time you’re faced with a challenge, remember that it just might be a soul lesson in disguise. Embrace it with an open heart and mind, learn from it, and watch your life transform in ways you never thought possible.
So take a deep breath, trust in the process, and let your soul guide you towards the lessons you need to learn. The rewards will be immeasurable.

Kim Bleeze, Founder | CEO
Kim Bleeze is a free-spirited gypsy traveller and wears many hats. A medium, psychic, mentor, teacher, speaker, healer and author. For over 15 years, Kim has worked with clients and students in Australia and Overseas. She has a passion for spirit, mediumship, and inspiring people to be real, raw, and awakened to their soul’s blueprint. Which ultimately inspired the birth of Fierce Truths Magazine.


























