Life is a profound journey of decisions, ranging from mundane daily choices to significant life-changing moments. These decisions are guided by multiple voices within us: our ego, intuition, and the often overlooked but critically important, our Soul and spirit. Mastering the interplay between these inner voices can open doors to profound spiritual growth and success.
At the core of our being lies the Soul, our divine essence, the very spark that connects us to the Universe. It is eternal, resilient, and constantly seeking growth and evolution. Our spirit, on the other hand, is the active expression of our Soul. It carries our life force and is the medium through which our Soul experiences the world.
Alongside our Soul and spirit, we have the ego and intuition, two contrasting yet essential components of our psyche. The ego, formed from years of conditioning, encourages us to stick with familiar, safe, and predictable patterns, much like an overprotective friend. Intuition is the Soul’s language, a gentle nudge propelling us towards exploration, growth, and new experiences, even in the face of uncertainty.
The ego, born from the primitive ‘fight or flight response of our ancestors, is a self-protection mechanism. It often presents obstacles when we contemplate significant changes, like a career move or a new venture, by highlighting potential risks and failures based on past fears and misconceptions. Deciphering between the ego and intuition can be challenging, but understanding their motivations can provide clarity. The ego’s goal is self-preservation, while intuition, the language of the Soul, guides us towards growth and progress. Fear and resistance are often signs of the ego reacting to the call of intuition.
Intuition, the divine whisper of the Soul, is a powerful tool for decision-making. Research in Psychological Science shows that people make more confident and accurate decisions when guided by intuition. Success stories from entrepreneurs and innovators often highlight the role intuition played in their journeys, despite the ego’s resistance.
Understanding the ego’s role in survival and self-preservation allows us to validate its fears, recognise them as protective mechanisms, and consciously choose to heed the Soul’s voice. The Soul, spirit, ego, and intuition are not adversaries but companions on our spiritual journey. Each has a role and serves a different purpose, contributing to our growth and evolution.
Developing trust in your intuition is a gradual process. It begins by observing the subtle signals your intuition sends. Do you experience it as a gut feeling, an inner voice, or an inexplicable knowing? Begin acting on these nudges in small ways and notice the outcomes. This practice will strengthen your bond with your intuition and Soul.
Walking the path of spiritual growth involves recognising your ego’s fears, appreciating its intent to protect, yet choosing to listen to your Soul’s wisdom, relayed through intuition. As we align our ego with our Soul’s longing for growth, we pave the way for spiritual expansion and personal evolution. Thus, we live and thrive, embodying the highest expressions of our Soul and spirit.
To deepen your understanding and foster this inner harmony, try to reflect on a recent decision you made. Write down your thought process. Did you encounter resistance or fear, signalling the influence of the ego? Or did you sense an inexplicable pull, indicating your intuition speaking? Journaling can provide insights into the interplay of these inner voices in your decision-making process.
Furthermore, rely on your intuition for minor daily choices, such as selecting your attire or planning your meals. By calming your mind and asking inwardly about your genuine desire, you start tuning into your instinctive response, building trust in your intuition.
Also, consider engaging in a simple guided meditation to strengthen your bond with your Soul and intuition. This practice might include focusing on your breath, visualising an inner light, and seeking guidance from the depths of your Soul.
To better appreciate the influence of the ego, try to identify situations where it tends to surface. Is it at work, in personal relationships, or when faced with change? Document the fears or objections your ego raises, and analyse if they are rooted in past experiences rather than the present reality.
Finally, remember the power of words. Adopt daily affirmations to reinforce your faith in your intuition. Use phrases like “I trust my inner guidance” or “My intuition guides me towards the right choices.” Regularly affirming these thoughts can help rewire your thoughts, fostering a positive mindset.
By actively engaging in these practices, you can enhance your understanding of your ego, intuition, Soul, and spirit. This inner exploration paves the way for spiritual expansion and personal evolution, enabling you to thrive and embody your Soul’s highest purpose. The journey to trusting your intuition involves self-discovery and growth, leading you towards spiritual and personal success.

Tui Te Kiri, Our Expert
Tui te Kiri is an internationally renowned psychic medium and spiritual healer and has helped over 15k+ clients to thrive. She is also the founder of Our Rising Academy, which provides a safe and supportive environment for intuitive and spiritual entrepreneurs to develop their intuition, discover their soul purpose, manifest their soulmate, and build a thriving business.



















