Energy stealers are everywhere! They are your family members, your friends, and your co-workers; YOU may even be one yourself. A more common name is an Energy Vampire, and we all know what vampires do! In this case, the vampire is sucking our vital energy, depleting us and can affect us in a way that we become emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually unhealthy. Spiritual purification and cord-cutting are some tools that can keep vampires away!
What does the term Energy Vampire mean anyway? An Energy Vampire is a person who steals other people’s energies because they are living their life in a victim consciousness and believe that everything happens to them. Living in this manner is very disempowering.
Therefore, they need to attach themselves to another person’s energy field to feel better about themselves.
For an Energy Vampire to attach themselves to your energy body, they form cords attaching the two of you together. These cords are not visible to the naked eye but can be seen with the psychic third eye. They unconsciously steal your energy when they need a boost instead of using their own, which can be very detrimental to your physical and mental health. At an unconscious level, you have allowed the vampire or vampires to attach themselves to your energy body through these cords. This connection can prevent you from being the real you, so these cords should be cut. And a spiritual purification such as smudging done, for your well-being and the other person’s growth.
How do we recognize an Energy Vampire? Some traits of the dis-empowered energy stealer often:
- Feel lonely or abandoned
- Feel others have rejected them in some way.
- Need constant reassurance
- Never feels satisfied
- Doesn’t like to be alone
- Seeks nurturing or feels they need to be taken care of
- Low energy and fatigued
- They have a ‘poor me’ attitude
- Can be a drama king or queen
- Constant talker that never allows you to speak
- Needs you to be their therapist or rescuer fixing their problems
- The blamer making you feel guilty about things
- Vindictive by putting you down
- A person who is unhappy a lot
- Tries controlling you or your life
- Manipulates you to get things their way
How do I know if I am being psychically attacked? You may experience:
- Dizziness
- Loss of energy
- Muscle tension
- Mental confusion
- Headaches
- Chronic fatigue
- Sleep disturbances
- Irritability
- Depressed mood
- Physical illness
- Small diminishing aura
- Leaks, holes and/or tears in your aura
- And a whole lot more!
You probably think that almost everyone alive is an energy vampire! Unfortunately, too many people are unaware of their energetic bodies and how they operate. Once people start taking responsibility for creating their own lives and taking back their personal power, this will not be as prevalent. (Granted, other conditions can also cause these symptoms besides being energetically attacked.) Either way, it is detrimental to your entire being.
How do I protect myself from this?
First, you must become aware of which individuals deplete your energy and limit your contact with them. But not being in their physical presence does not stop them from draining you! It would help if you released all the negative emotions that you carry within yourself. If you hold anger, hurt, jealousy, etc., inside your being, it is like you are shackled to a ball and chain, holding you hostage with your own creation!
Releasing all negative emotions brings freedom, as fear is the robber of peace. Why must I do this? Because any disharmony in our four energetic bodies will cause us to be vulnerable so that darkness and confusion can enter. Being aware of this is empowering. I stress this, do not go into fear now that you are aware of this. Simply take steps to protect yourself. Darkness consists of a lower/heavier vibration, such as anger, fear, depression, jealousy, hatred etc. When angry thoughts are directed at you, they can penetrate your weak and vulnerable areas like arrows. They take away your clarity, fill you with confusion, and drain your energy.
The following are some tools to empower yourself from Energy Vampires:
Here is a simple cord-cutting exercise: Cord-cutting should be done daily and much more often when going through a stressful period in our lives. These cords should be cut periodically from our loved ones as well. Don’t worry; it won’t affect your connection to them; it just allows new energy for future interactions
Take some deep, cleansing breaths – in through the nose and out through the mouth.
Call upon Spirit and your Spirit Guides and ask for assistance in cutting all cords attached to your being.
Visualize Spirit and your Guide’s positive energy swirling around your entire being, severing all the cords. Know that no cord can remain intact, and they return to where they came from. When you feel the process is complete, thank Spirit and your Guides for their assistance. It is done.
Here are some physical steps for purification:
- Burn all relevant photographs or objects holding memories of the person, place or situation (only with people you no longer want to connect to.)
- Write down all feelings of frustration, anger, hurt, fear, etc., and burn the paper or bury it. Please don’t give it to the person! Repeat this step as often as necessary.
- Clear all the clutter from every room of your home—rule of thumb. If you haven’t used it in 6 months, it’s not likely you will! I invite you to get rid of it.
- Clean and, if necessary, redecorate your home. Bringing nature indoors is lovely energy!
- Check that there are no books on your bookshelves or pictures on your walls with negative energy. Surround yourself with high-vibrational objects, spiritual books, spiritual pictures, plants, fresh flowers etc.
- Smudge with sage, and invoke the help of Spirit, your Guides and your Higher Self.
- Cleanse and purify your crystals and dedicate them to the Light.
- Light candles and use high vibrational pure essential oils.
Retaining your personal power and protecting yourself from unconscious and conscious energy takers is essential.
Now that you know what getting drained of energy can feel like in your life, you will be better equipped to guard against this. While you can’t change their energetic intent, you can prevent it from affecting you, and it is easy to keep on top of this once you sustain a certain level of self-awareness and accountability for protecting yourself.













