Gabby Bernstein: Illuminating Souls and Inspiring Hearts

Resistance will continue to show up in our lives. That’s okay. Just acknowledge it and forgive it so you can return to love fast.

Some individuals shine with an indomitable light, guiding others towards their most authentic selves. One such luminary is the incredible Gabby Bernstein. For countless spirit junkies around the globe, Gabby has been instrumental in their journey, igniting their inner flames and empowering them to express their authentic voices. Her profound impact and vulnerability, in which she openly shares her story, have touched the lives of many, including mine. Her story is a beacon of hope and inspiration for all who yearn for a more purposeful existence.

Gabby’s voyage and dabbling on the spiritual path began long before she became the influential figure we know today. But it wasn’t until 2005 that her life took a transformative turn, and she fully embraced spirituality as a way of being. Battling addiction and facing the darkness of rock bottom, she summoned the strength to confront her demons head-on and embrace sobriety. This courageous step opened the door to profound self-discovery and spiritual exploration. Gabby immersed herself in the teachings and wisdom of spiritual masters, absorbing every word and allowing it to translate into her reality. Through this process, she unearthed her soul’s purpose: to be a source of love and inspiration in the world.

Embracing her newfound calling, Gabby embarked on a journey of sharing her wisdom and experiences through speaking and writing. Today, she is a New York Times best-selling author of eight books, each a precious gem illuminating the path to self-realization and fulfilment. Her words resonate deep within the hearts of her readers, stirring their souls and propelling them towards a life aligned with their most authentic essence. With titles like “The Universe Has Your Back” and “Spirit Junkie,” Gabby’s books have become cherished companions for those seeking guidance and transformation. Myself included.

But Gabby’s impact extends far beyond the pages of her books. She is a passionate teacher and an engaging speaker, captivating audiences worldwide with her electrifying presence and insightful teachings. Her commitment to service has led her to host events and workshops where she imparts her wisdom, helping others find their light and embrace the journey of self-discovery. With unwavering love and compassion, she cracks open the hearts of her followers, nurturing a profound connection to their divine essence.

Gabby’s influence and message have also transcended traditional platforms. Her online presence and digital courses have empowered countless individuals to break free from fear and embrace a life of abundance and purpose. Through her unique blend of spirituality and practicality, she guides others to tap into their inner power, inspiring them to create positive change in their lives and the world around them.

As I reflect upon the impact, Gabby Bernstein has had on my journey. I am filled with gratitude and awe at the opportunity to share my reverence and respect for her as a human and for her service to humanity. Through her teachings, I have found the courage to speak my truth, unafraid of judgment or rejection – my intent; to help you do the same. Her unwavering belief in the power of love and her relentless pursuit of authenticity have permitted me to live in alignment with my soul’s purpose.

It is with great honour and excitement that I invite you to delve deeper into the wisdom of Gabby Bernstein. In this exclusive Q&A session, she shares her insights, inspirations, and invaluable guidance. So, get comfy, and prepare to immerse yourself in Gabby’s wisdom. I do not doubt her words will touch you in a way that is transformative for your soul—giving you the tools and helping you pave the way for more love and fulfilment in your life.

Being a Spirit Junkie is having faith in an everpresent energy of love that is within us and around us, supporting us and guiding us.

Kim: Your soul’s path has led you to change millions of lives of spirit junkies worldwide. Does that come with pressure? If so, how do you manage that personally?

Gabby: Not really. For me, being a Spirit Junkie is having faith in an ever-present energy of love that is within us and around us, supporting us and guiding us. My commitment to personal/spiritual development has offered me immense personal growth and recovery. I also know that I’m on a mission to help as many people as possible and have a lot of fun. When that’s my only objective, it’s easy to expect miracles and live in the flow. 

Kim: You generously share so much of your journey with your followers. What is it like to be a light for others, and how do you draw the line between being that and maintaining balance and privacy in your personal life? 

Gabby: My personal experience transforming the trauma of my past—my own spiritual journey—led me to the life of my wildest dreams. I’m on a mission now to help other people crack open to their highest potential. I feel so privileged to offer these transformational live talks and connect with millions of people through my podcast, Dear Gabby, and nine bestselling books. I’m currently working on my tenth book, and I’ve spent the last year working on my greatest gift to the world so far—so stay tuned! 

Kim: What is your advice to anyone who deeply feels they have a big soul mission to accomplish?

Gabby: Through the process of alignment and co-creation with the Universe, you become a magnet for your desires and learn to let go of specific outcomes. When you focus on the outcome, you lose the opportunity to allow the Universe to step in and take over. 

When we surrender to the Universe, we make way for miracles to happen. We allow the Universe to lead us to what is of the highest good for all—and it’s often so much better than we can even imagine.

In my book, The Universe Has Your Back, I write; 

The key to trusting in the Universe’s plan is to let go of all outcomes. When we get hung up on how something “should” turn out, then we disconnect with the flow of universal guidance. The energy behind a “should” mentality is controlling and manipulating. The Universe does not align with that energy. It’s when we let go of the outcome that we open up our perceptual worldview and allow ourselves to be led.

Kim: Feeling resistance to showing up in our purpose is commonly experienced by many lightworkers. Do you ever feel that resistance, and if so, how do you work through that? 

Gabby: Our resistance is the reason we stay stuck in patterns that keep us from thriving. I have a 4-step method  that I use for releasing resistance with joy and ease:

Step 1: Acknowledge your resistance

The first step to breaking free from resistance is to acknowledge it. Acknowledge your resistance to love. When we accept that we are addicted to fear, we can let ourselves off the hook for anything in the past and for the detours into fear we will continue to make on our spiritual path. We can forgive ourselves for holding on to old patterns.

Resistance will continue to show up in our lives. That’s okay. Just acknowledge it and forgive it so you can return to love fast. Once you have acknowledged your resistance, you are ready for step 2.

Step 2: Surrender to spiritual guidance

We have been programmed to believe in the fears of the world. When we believe in the world’s fears we resist love by trying to control our lives. Believing in love requires a mental reprogramming. When you surrender your plans and release control, you allow the voice of your intuition and the energy of love to be your guide.

Welcome this guidance with a prayer of surrender:

Today I surrender my goals and plans to the care of the Universe. I offer up my agenda and accept spiritual guidance. I trust that there is a plan far greater than mine. I know that where there once was lack and limitation there are spiritual solutions and creative ideas. I step back and let love lead the way. Thy will be done.

Step 3: Release judgment

In many cases, judgment has been our greatest defense mechanism. We have used it to defend against our vulnerability. We fear that if we let our guard down and act compassionately and lovingly toward one another that we’ll be taken advantage of and no longer be safe.

The more conscious we become of how we use judgment to “play it safe,” the more we realize how unsafe it really is. We can begin to see how judgment breeds more judgment. When we attempt to protect ourselves with judgment, we create more separation and deepen our disconnection from love.

Love can seem far scarier to us than fear. We’re terrified to let love in because we fear that when we do we’ll be susceptible to more pain. But love is the antidote to judgment. Love heals all.

Step 4: Proactively choose joy

We have a sacred responsibility to lean toward joy. The more joyful we are, the more light we can shine upon the world, the more power we have to express our presence, and the more positive energy we can put out.

When we lean toward joy we raise our vibrational frequency, which gives us the energy necessary to show up and serve. Joy is the inspiration behind creative solutions for seemingly hopeless problems. It provides us with generosity so we can give more where there is need.

When you’re in a state of joy you leave a positive imprint on every being in the world.

Kim: When you look out into the world, what do you feel needs to be embodied more by all of us to create the positive changes we need as a collective?

Gabby: Authenticity. We’re living in a time when we are being called to rise to our authentic truth. We are expected to show up in massive, honest ways. Let your inner light shine and wake you up. Devote moments in your life to what makes you feel real and what makes your heart sing. Don’t wait for a time when you’re free of fear. Feel the fear and do it anyway. Step into your authentic truth, because your truth will light up the world.

Being your authentic self means you are aligned with your truth. It puts you into vibrational harmony with the Universe and allows you to receive more guidance. You feel like you’re supported, and you become a magnet for what you want.

Kim: How do you integrate your personal experiences of growth and transformation into your teachings and leadership style, and how do you remain authentic and vulnerable while doing so?

Gabby: I share my stories, and I encourage other people to share theirs, for an important reason: I know they will help other people. When you stand in your authentic truth, you give others permission to do the same.

In the Introduction to my book, Happy Days,  I write:

“We’re anxious for you, Gabby,” said my publisher after reading the first pass of the manuscript. “It feels too vulnerable,” they continued. “You’re revealing one difficult moment after the next. You’re not showing your true strength.”

“My ability to be this vulnerable is my true strength,” I responded.

My hope is that my vulnerability will give you the chance to look more closely at yours. I hope to give you permission to face feelings you’ve buried deep and give you guidance on how to heal from them. This book will help you reclaim the fragmented parts of who you are—your innocence, your faith, and your ability to know true love within. It offers you the guided path to the peace you’re looking for. My prayer is that this book sets you free.”

Kim: Do you have any other advice you feel is important to share as we learn to navigate current global and collective changes?

Gabby: When we’re going through a collective worldwide trauma—we have to do our part as spiritual people. We have to wake up each day and say, “How can I see this through the lens of love?” We have to wake up each day with the willingness to surrender our fears and ask them to be transformed. We have to learn to rely on a spiritual foundation of our own understanding so that we can get through the chaos of these times. 

Today I consciously choose to think loving thoughts, take compassionate action and bring forth peaceful energy.

Ask yourself these three questions today:

1. What CONSCIOUS THOUGHT can I choose with love today? (How can I be more loving in my thoughts?)
2. What COMPASSIONATE ACTION can I take that might have been different than something I thought I was about to do? (How can I be more compassionate in my actions?)
3. What can I do today to bring forth more PEACEFUL ENERGY? (How can I bring more love and energy and positivity through everything I do throughout the day?)

The clearest guidance I can give you is to align your energy with the highest good.

• Line up your thoughts with the highest good.
• Stay open to creative possibilities.
• Do what brings you joy.
• Follow these three steps every single day.
• Maintain a positive mindset.
• Bring forth more compassion and kindness for others.

Gabby, what is your fierce truth?

My authenticity is the sexiest, coolest, most awesome part of me. 

One time I was asked during an interview, “Are you proud of who you’ve become?” Immediately my response just came out of me. I said, “I haven’t become anything. I’ve let go of who I thought I should be.”

There is nothing cooler than your authentic truth. That goes for all of us. All we have to do is tell the truth. Tell the truth and be kind. All the things that you think you need to be, all the pretences you’ve built up around yourself, no one even wants it. The world just wants your authentic truth.