A few months ago, the universe handed me a lesson in grief when my Uncle, a beacon of light to many, transitioned to the other side. The pain was palpable, but my deep connection to the spirit realm offered a unique form of solace. I’d often wondered if my spiritual insights would make me immune to the sting of grief. After all, I’ve always believed our loved ones transition to a realm that makes Disneyland seem mundane.
However, I quickly learned that grief is a universal language that doesn’t discriminate. It’s a raw, transformative emotion with the power to either shackle us or set us free. This realisation was humbling; it reminded me that no amount of spiritual knowledge could insulate me from the human experience of loss.
One night, I had an unusual experience that would later offer me a profound lesson.
I walked out of my room and encountered a shadowy figure in my lounge. Encountering spirits is not uncommon for me as a medium, but this felt different. It was as if my intuition picked up on something before my conscious mind did, automatically prompting me to say, ‘Everyone is asleep right now. It’s time for you to cross.’ Before I could fully grasp the situation, the spirit had crossed over. The next day, when I learned of my Uncle’s passing, I felt an immediate sense of relief for him. It became clear that he had come to say his goodbyes, serving as a poignant reminder that death is not the end but a transition.
In a world where loss has become all too common, I felt compelled to share this journey. I hope it offers a glimmer of comfort to those navigating the tumultuous waters of grief. This experience felt like a mirror reflecting the messages I’ve relayed to grieving clients for years. Now, I found myself on the receiving end of such comfort. The reassurance that our loved ones never truly leave us is a magical gift, especially during the grieving process.
Often, the grief we feel is an overflow of love, a reservoir of emotions we’re unsure where to place. In those overwhelming moments, I’ve found solace in directing that love towards my Uncle. When I do, the pain subsides, and I often feel his comforting presence. This is the alchemy of grief; it transforms pain into a connection that transcends the physical world.
The spirit realm is a space of pure energy, love, and consciousness. It’s where our souls retreat, rejuvenate, and reflect after our earthly journey. It’s a place that feels like home, a sanctuary where our essence continues to thrive. While our physical bodies are temporary vessels, our souls are eternal. Studies like those conducted by Dr. Gary E. Schwartz in “The Afterlife Experiments” lend a scientific perspective to these age-old beliefs.
A few days after my Uncle’s passing, he visited me again, radiating warmth and peace. He was laughing and dancing, surrounded by loved ones who had passed before him. Such visitations from the afterlife are not uncommon and serve as a therapeutic form of closure. Psychologists often note the healing effects of these experiences, affirming that they can be a crucial part of the grieving process.
In the initial stages of grief, our brain often goes into what psychologists call ‘survival mode.’ This is a protective mechanism that helps us cope with the immediate shock and pain of loss. As we come to terms with our loss, this survival mode gradually lifts, making it easier for us to sense the spiritual presence of our departed loved ones. It’s as if a veil lifts, allowing us to feel, see, and hear more clearly the messages they send us.
For those not as attuned to the spirit realm, signs from our loved ones often manifest as feathers, rainbows, or even specific songs. Trust your intuition; the first person you think of is likely the one sending the message. It’s a whisper from the other side, a nudge from the universe, reminding you that love never dies.
In moments of profound grief, solace often comes from understanding and connecting with the spirit realm. This connection can be cultivated through meditation, prayer, or simply sitting in silence. Books like “The Five Stages of Grief” by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross offer invaluable insights into the grieving process, providing a roadmap through the labyrinth of loss.
To those navigating grief, remember: Your loved ones are at peace, watching over you from realms we might not fully comprehend. They are always a thought, a memory, a heartbeat away. As you journey through life, embrace the eternal nature of love. Cherish it, and let it guide you. Love is the compass that guides us through the wilderness of grief, pointing the way toward healing and peace.
I dedicate this article to my Uncle Warrick, who is laughing and dancing happily in heaven. Until I see you again, I will always love you.
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Tui Te Kiri, Our Expert
Tui te Kiri is an internationally renowned psychic medium and spiritual healer and has helped over 15k+ clients to thrive. She is also the founder of Our Rising Academy, which provides a safe and supportive environment for intuitive and spiritual entrepreneurs to develop their intuition, discover their soul purpose, manifest their soulmate, and build a thriving business.
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