This is a time of great spiritual awakening on the planet. All of my spiritual teachers tell me that we are experiencing a massive consciousness expansion and the dismantling of millennia-old thought processes and ideas. As part of this consciousness expansion, many people I know are courageously looking at their core issues and doing deep inner work. When I first began my self-work almost three decades ago, I first connected to the voice of my wounded inner child. And that was amazing. But I spent quite a few years unconsciously spewing my damage and anger all over people, thinking that I was recovered, empowered and “owning my truth.” I was in fact trying to make others pay for how I was feeling. I was really screaming out my fear, shame, rage and guilt. It was a start, but I hurt a lot of people in my purging. I wanted to make you pay for what I was feeling.
While you are doing inner healing, be considerate with your thoughts, words and actions. Don’t try to make others pay for how you are feeling.
Decades later, I can see that learning to connect with a kind, compassionate and balanced voice was the sign of my true emotional and spiritual recovery. Of course, being responsible with your words and actions will save you from causing damage to your relationships with others. But there’s another, even more important reason to practice restraint of tongue and pen. You see, you are actually a magic manifesting wizard. Did you know that when you speak, you are actually casting spells? And even more worrying, you are also casting spells with every thought that you have.
To compound the issue, not only are you a powerful manifestor, but you also have a team of spirit guides. Your spirit team loves you unconditionally, and they are always listening to you. So they are delighted to deliver that which you say. If you think or say that you are unlovable and won’t find a partner, guess what? Your team will deliver that. Why? Because your life’s purpose is to EXPERIENCE.
Every experience is valuable to your soul. Even the ones that you don’t like.
If you want to live a happy life of authenticity and kinship with others, think before you speak, and ask yourself these three questions: (1) Is this kind? (2) Is this necessary? (3) Does this bring me into greater harmony with those around me, or create distance and discord?
There’s also another reason to be conscious about the spells that you are casting. I used to think that there was only one Scott. In fact, I am part of a big family of Scotts. As an egocentric human, I thought that my soul was in me. But I am part of a massive soul group. Our souls are way too big to fit in our small bodies. Each soul group is experiencing through the many particles of itself that exist across time and space. For instance, every time you turn left, there is a ‘you’ who turns right. It’s all for the purpose of
efficiently experiencing. There’s a ‘you’ who never met your partner. There’s a ‘you’ who studied engineering instead of marketing. And on it goes. So every time that you engage in self-shaming, self-condemnation or self-abuse, you are hurting all of the yous that make up your soul group.
After the breakup of my marriage five years ago, I was completely destroyed. Close, loving friends took me into their homes and cared for me for six months, because I was quite literally incapable of caring for myself. I was indulging in passive suicidal ideation and really questioning why I was here on the planet. I kept debating whether I would continue to stay here and experience the grief, desolation and despair that I was experiencing.
At my core, I didn’t believe that it mattered if I was alive or not. I didn’t see how I mattered in Goddess’ grand scheme.
Fortunately, I was seeing an excellent clinical psychologist and spiritual practitioner at this time. He sensed that I was carrying a lot of negative energy and intentions in the form of my thoughts and words. He warned me not to continue with my negative and selfish spellcasting. My counsellor explained that if I ceased to exist here, then I would harm or destroy all of the other Scotts on alternative timelines and in different dimensional realities. All of the Scotts need to be here together, even though we may not be aware of each other.
During this dark time for me, a shaman also told me that my sixth-dimensional self was a senator in a galactic federation of light. And by my diminishing my importance or thinking that I didn’t matter, I was casting spells that were hurting all of me across time and space, up and down the vibrations and dimensions.
So be careful about the things you think and say. They reverberate out into the universe and find similar energy. So dark thoughts connect with other dark thoughts and come careening back to you into your reality as unwanted or heavy sh*t. Try changing your thoughts about yourself and others.
Instead of being critical of yourself and others, try celebrating your and others’ virtues. Instead of venting your pain on others, pause and show compassion. Then watch how your reality and life situations start to change. You are a powerful wizard. And with great power comes great responsibility.
Scott Grasso, Our Expert (Former)
Scott Grasso is an intuitive, psychic, medium, mentor and apart of our editing team. He has a passion to guide people out of the fear and darkness so they can live a joyful life.
- Scott Grasso, Our Expert (Former)
- Scott Grasso, Our Expert (Former)
- Scott Grasso, Our Expert (Former)
- Scott Grasso, Our Expert (Former)
- Scott Grasso, Our Expert (Former)
- Scott Grasso, Our Expert (Former)
- Scott Grasso, Our Expert (Former)
- Scott Grasso, Our Expert (Former)
