If you are a medium and want to enhance your sitter’s experience with deeper details, there are a few things you can work on to have that ultimate link with Spirit.
One of the most important is to build your relationship to Spirit. This is essential to maintaining a strong connection within your mediumship. Many mediums are disconnected from their relationship to Spirit. They see Spirit as separate from themselves rather than that they are part of Spirit. However, once you shift that perspective to being one with Spirit, you will see your mediumship grow profoundly. It’s about trusting Spirit wholeheartedly and completely surrendering into the process. Removing ego from the connection and replacing it with joy, awe and curiosity, you will see how your mediumship will begin to unfold naturally. Mediumship is not meant to be forced.
There are many trainings on how to deepen your connection to Spirit, but when you fully engage with Spirit with genuine interest and compassion, you will see that details within the reading naturally emerge. If you are given the impression of a ring, then tune in and ask Spirit, “What color is the stone in your ring?” Take chances in your mediumship. Don’t play it too safe and be cautious of overinterpreting. Spirit will give you the information very simply. If you deliver it as cleanly and simply as it’s given to you, then you will see the dots connect within the connection to Spirit.
Don’t forget the simple fact that Spirit was once in physical form. By remembering they are still people with families, friends, stories and memories, they will share with you. Spirit does not try to withhold information from you. They are trusting you to deliver what they are giving you so there is a responsibility on you to deliver the information authentically and honorably.
Although you may have one Clair (psychic sense) that tends to be more dominant than the others, it’s important to access all of your Clairs. This will result in the fullest and most rounded reading. When you tie in what you see to what you hear and how you feel, you begin to receive a fuller image, description and feeling from Spirit. Relax into your Clairs and allow them to work naturally without being forced. The more relaxed you are within your connection, the more you can blend with Spirit. Blending is the ability to share space with the Spirit. It’s not channeling, but rather sharing. By allowing Spirit to share your physical space and your senses with you, they are able to express themselves more clearly. When you are blending, you may take on their mannerisms, posture and other physical traits. You will be able to feel into their personality and bring that forward with ease and accuracy. Blending with Spirit offers your sitter an experience of having your loved ones as close to the physical realm with them as possible. They will be able to see the expressions of their loved one and recognise their mannerisms.
Evidential mediumship is not about a checklist of information that needs to come through, but rather, bringing through a Spirit with such accuracy within their personality, traits, hobbies, memories and more, that there is no way you could know the information. Although names, locations and ages, for example, have been historically considered “evidence”, true evidence could be in a certain treat they gave you when they took you to the carnival or a certain way they would stroke your hair. Evidence is when your sitter walks away from the session feeling a deep connection with their loved one and knowing they had that last laugh or conversation with them because of you. If you strive for your mediumship to be healing, natural and connective, you will see the purpose of Spirit and why they continuously want to remind us that they are very much still with us!
